Is it rude to ask someone a question to their face, or make up lies about them behind their back? which one...?

rude?Is it rude to ask someone a question to their face, or make up lies about them behind their back? which one...?
Asking a question to their face depends on the kind of question you are asking.





Making up lies abut some behind their back, is simply wrong. It talks about the kind of person you are.Is it rude to ask someone a question to their face, or make up lies about them behind their back? which one...?
the second one is not only rude but it's also wrong.





the first one can be rude, it depends on what you ask and how you ask it and also when you ask the question. say if someone ask you how much you make for your living, that can be consider rude. but if that someone is your future boss, asking you how much do you currently make and why you want to quit your current job and apply for a new one, that would not be considered rude.
I don't know if it's necessarily rude to make up lies behind someone's back, but it's definitely bad character.





As for asking someone a question to their face, I guess it would depend on what the question is...
Lying about someone is always terrible. But depending on the question, that can be rude, too.
It's much worse to make up lies behind someones back.
I think both are rude, but I think lying about someone behind their back is horrible..
I think both are rude depending on what it is you want to know!